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Karen's avatar

This story really resonates with me. I grew up with four older brothers, went to a male-dominated and very demanding college, choose a tough, male-dominated career path, etc. it wasn’t until my 40s that I was in an environment where there were as many women as men.

Boy was it hard. But it was also great, and with only a couple notable exceptions, never did I feel that the men wanted to thwart or condescend to me. Quite the opposite. They were surprised and impressed to see a woman in their milieu and offered lots of good advice to help me succeed. That’s dozens of talented and caring men.

A very successful female friend of mine, about ten years younger, was complaining not too long ago about the “patriarchy” and I was flabbergasted. There is no world in which she suffered any more than a guy for her success. It just didn’t happen. But, sadly, she thinks it did and she doesn’t have any guy friends. And now one less female friend. Guys are awesome!

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Nathalie Martinek PhD's avatar

I'm grateful for your generosity Holly!

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