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Nicole Scheidl's avatar

I found this a super helpful explanation of appropriate accommodations. Thank you so much for being so clear, it really helped me understand the issues better. I also really appreciate that you shared your story about requiring extra time to write your calculus exam. It just made so much sense to me and gave me an insight into your experience which is shared by others in my life. It helps me understand them and for that I am truly grateful.

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This is a really good essay. Thanks for your insight from the perspective of a deaf person. As someone who also doesn't hear well, I've been annoyed at the comparisons of Fetterman to deaf/hard of hearing people who require closed-captioning. Not the same thing at all!

I have a question for you, regarding deafness/hard of hearing. I never know what to call myself. I feel a little like I'm "being a victim" if I say I'm deaf (because I can hear sounds and never had to learn sign language, though that might have helped), but "hard of hearing" doesn't seem like ... enough. Like you, I require hearing aids (well, just one hearing aid, since one ear is almost completely deaf and doesn't benefit from one). Even with the hearing aid, I avoid talking on the phone because it's exhausting, and I can't understand people with accents. Women's voices are especially hard for me to understand, and if there is background noise at all ... forget it! I depend on closed-captioning when watching YouTube or TV.

Over the years, I've learned to "hear" by watching people's mouths and picking up on context clues. That doesn't always work, so I'm a master of the smile and nod, though I've also gotten less self-conscious about asking people to repeat things or write them down.

Would you call that deaf or hard of hearing? Thanks.

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